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#6: The Importance of Empathy (not Sympathy)

Oct 30, 2020

Have you heard him say - “I’m sorry I hurt you. You would be better off without me.” And it doesn’t actually help? This is because comments like this are enveloped in shame and are sympathetic, but not empathetic. In this episode, Jason and I talk through what she needs to hear and how, yes, HOW he can learn to...

#5: When There Is No Good Answer

Oct 23, 2020

Piggy-backing off of the last episode, there are times when there is no good answer for the questions that she might be asking. This doesn't mean that the questions aren't worthwhile. Not even close - her questions are incredibly important because it's part of how she is working through her grieving process. "I don't...

#4: Why Did He Do This?

Oct 16, 2020

Why did he do this?If you haven’t already noticed, I like to give Jason a hard time (as you will hear a couple of times throughout this episode). He’s real patient with me and just rolls with it. He’s a good guy.

In this episode, we talk about a big question that women ask - “Why? Why did you do this?!" I...

#3: Navigating through Triggers in Public

Oct 9, 2020

We are back with a candid conversation about triggers. Have you heard of a trigger-squared? Well - it’s a real thing and we want to make sure that doesn’t happen so in this episode, we talk through some practical tips to help manage triggers in public.

Links to select blog posts on triggers: here and here

#2: What We Would Have Done Differently

Oct 2, 2020

Where is the roadmap for recovery? Is there a perfect way to go about it? Jason and Shelley unpack these questions as well as discuss what they would have done differently three months into the process and three years into the process.

“The music happens between the notes”- the actual quote is “Music is the...