Dec 31, 2021
In this week’s episode, we continue with a couple of other listener questions. Get ready for me to not answer Jason’s questions and push back on some of what he is saying - he handles me well.
Here are a couple of the things we discuss:
- Is it possible to enjoy television as a couple?
- Could it be true that he...
Dec 17, 2021
In this week’s episode, we address listener questions. Specifically, we address the possibility of enjoying a beach/pool day without it being triggering (which is the only listener question we got to because it was just too good!).
Early on, or even ten years into the process, this can be SO difficult. We discuss a...
Dec 3, 2021
In this week’s episode we are going to talk about what it looks like to heal from Acting In / Intimacy Aversion.
Remember, Acting In consists of the techniques he uses to push her away in order to protect himself.
Jason talks to husbands about what it looks like for him to stop acting in. Shelley gives three...
Nov 19, 2021
In this week’s episode we discuss Acting In which is also called Intimacy Aversion. We also discuss Gaslighting, a close cousin to Acting In.
Intimacy Aversion is keeping others at arms length in order to self-protect and self-preserve (in an unhealthy way). While this is a part of the human condition, it’s...